What We Learn From Goaltending
Hockey is more than wins, losses, and statistics. There are many
positive values that can be developed through participation in
athletics. I believe goaltending can help a young male or female to
mature emotionally. There are more pressures from other people's
expectations to perform well and there is a responsibility to be the
team's defensive backbone. How a young person handles this
responsibility can determine how they handle day to day pressure in
the real world. Let's examine some goaltending attributes that
transcend sports.
I. HANDLING ADVERSITY
You've given up two goals on your first two shots. Your teammates
are looking at you and shaking their heads. The fans are laughing at
you and making fun of you, your mother, and your ability. Imagine if
you made a mathematical mistake at the office and your co-workers
reacted similarly. If a goalie can maintain a sense of self-worth
during a bad game, he or she can handle real life. For every hour of
success , a goalie has probably endured countless hours of setbacks.
II. HUMILITY
Good goalies do not look humble during games and should be downright
cocky. Humility comes from the reality of athletic performance.
Goalies know that they may earn a shutout one night and get yanked
the next. Seasons have peaks and valleys so goalies learn not to get
conceited when things are going well or get depressed over a bad
game. Mature goalies strive to be consistent and savor the good
times. A goalie's success is related to the team playing in front of
him or her. A goalie is valuable, but is still part of the team
philosophy.
II. WORK ETHIC
The world doesn't owe any of us a favor. Goalies can't just show up
and play well without proper preparation. The best goalies use
practices to challenge themselves and push their athletic skills to
the limits. Goalies can appreciate their good moments more as they
reflect on the hard work that got them there. There is no
goaltending lottery that gives the winner Vezina Trophy skills. Hard
working, dedicated goalies pass by their lazy counterparts.
IV. SENSE OF HUMOR
How can anyone go through life without a sense of humor? Humor helps
us through sad times. One cannot be a goaltender without a sense of
humor. Goalies have a reputation to live down to since we are
supposed to be weird and flaky. Outrageous behavior, silly pranks
and one-liners divert our attention from the tasks at hand. Life is
too short for us not to have some laughs along the way. After a bad
game, the goalie needs to pick himself up and sarcastic humor
usually leads the way.
V. DISCIPLINE
We all need to be wild and crazy now and then, but an irresponsible
goalie who stays up late, eats the wrong things, neglects school
work and is tardy for practice will have an awfully tough time being
successful. Goalies must be organized and dedicated to climb the
hockey ladder. Learning discipline is an important step in the
maturation process of any individual. Future employers demand it and
goaltenders gain an early step on the value of being disciplines and
determined to reach one's potential.
VI. FOCUS
A goalie's ability to block out distractions and concentrate on the
game is key. Think about all the people you may know that can't
finish what they start. Goalies must stay focused or run the risk of
failure which is dramatized by the infamous red light. Goalies tend
to follow similar routines on game days so they can concentrate on
their job. If goalies apply the same philosophy to their homework or
future job, they can ignore tempting diversion and be successful.
VII. LEADERSHIP
Goalies are the barometers of their teams. If the goalie folds under
pressure so will the team. The goalie's leadership potential is
unquestionable. He or she must pump up the team by exuding
confidence. They must be a locker room and on-ice presence. A
goalie's behavior is observed by many and if the image is a negative
one, the team will be in for some rocky times. Most goalies thrive
on leadership roles and relish the thought of carrying the team to
greater heights.
VIII. RESPONSIBILITY
Like it or not, the goalie gets blamed for losses and rarely gets
credit for wins. Goalies will be chewed out by coaches, receive
abuse from fans and be taken for granted by teammates. Goalies
should know that the negatives go with the territory and to keep all
comments, whether positive or negative, in perspective. Mature
goalies are not chronic whiners and complainers. They hold their
head up high, win or lose, and accept responsibility for their
actions.
As you many now surmise, goaltending teaches us useful skills that
are applicable to life beyond the hockey rinks. Goalies are special
people. When goalies meet goalies, they become fast friends. Only
goalies know first hand the trials and tribulations of donning the
tools of ignorance. Instead of being quick to make fun of
goaltenders, take the time to
consider the person behind the myth.
This article was contributed by
Fred
Quistgard of Quistgard Goalie Training.
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